The legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of passage consist of the following:
His father takes him into the forest blindfolded and leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not take off the blindfold until the ray of sun shines through it.
He is all by himself. He cannot cry out for help to anyone.
Once he survives the night he is a MAN.
He cannot tell the other boys of this experience. Each boy must come into his own manhood.
So the night has just started: The boy was terrified: could hear all kinds of noise, Beasts were all around him. Maybe even some human would hurt him. The wind blew the grass and earth and it shook his stump.
But he sat stoically never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could be a man.
Finally, after a horrific night...the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold. It was then that he saw his father, sitting on the stump next to him...at watch...the entire night.
We are never truly alone. Even when we do not know it, our family and friends are watching out for us...sitting on a stump beside us.